Not asking for help
The good news is that you’re searching for “solutions to relationship problems” — and you’re still reading this article! Awesome. This is one way of getting help. But you know it’s not enough. You know you need different ideas on how to solve the problems in your relationship or marriage…but you don’t know how to get the help you need.
The solution: Ask the right people for help. I’m not the right person; I can’t help you solve the problems in your relationship. You may feel like you’re asking for help by writing about your relationship problems in the comments section below, but the truth is that it’ll get you nowhere. Instead, get more in-depth help from a counselor, therapist, psychologist, doctor, pastor, or lawyer. Don’t ask strangers on the internet for advice on how to solve problems in your relationship. They don’t know you. They don’t know your boyfriend or husband. They don’t know what’s really going on in your relationship. Ask someone who can actually help you solve your problems.