Avoid Talking

Procrastination happens a lot in a relationship. You know exactly what relationship problems you’re dealing with, but you’re putting off “the talk” with your boyfriend or husband. It’s painful, confusing and emotional to talk about relationship problems. Finding the right solutions is hard. It takes time and effort. Avoidance is easier and less scary than facing problems in a relationship – especially if you tend to create catastrophes and be controlled by fear of the future.

The solution to this relationship problem: Before you get honest and real with your partner, learn how to be honest with yourself. You’ve lived the problems for a long time; give yourself time to adjust to a new way of thinking and being. This new way of approaching life involves being honest about your relationship problems and taking time to find the right solutions for you.