Not celebrating growth, connection, beauty and joy together
Finally — you made it! The final reason you’re not finding solutions to your problems is that you haven’t celebrated the problems you’ve dealt with and overcome as a couple. For example, my husband and I coped with infertility. Not only did we keep our marriage strong through this, we actually learned ways to celebrate our childless situation. I’m grateful now that we didn’t have kids, and I celebrate the fact that Bruce and I came through this together. We’re stronger and happier than ever before, and we trust God more than we ever did.
The solution to this relationship problem: What problems have you and your boyfriend or husband already solved? What can you celebrate as a couple? Take time to enjoy the progress you’ve already made. See how far you’ve come. Look at your relationship together, and marvel at the beauty of the love you have. Enjoy your union, for you were brought together for a reason.